I do not post to this journal any longer, all my current posts are at my Dream Width account or mirrored at my Insane Journal account, both under the same name.
Please feel free to comment at either of these journals. I also have a Twitter account, for those interested in my weird ramblings: NephirNuit
Thank you kindly!
Rereading my last post from 2 years ago - I am still at Mortuary Service Provider. My interviews didn't pan out like I had hoped, but in looking at those same companies now I only only be grateful. One has a problematic worker, and their record with female employees makes me thank the Goddess everyday that I do not have to work with him on a regular basis. Nothing like having have your staff quit in protest when you bring said problem child from oe funeral home to another.
The other position (different company) was given to another person, and honestly I cannot understand why they do things the way that they do. But I don't work for them, so it really doesn't matter I guess.
Its a very small world in the death industry, so you always want to be cautious in what you say or do.
Lets be honest. We are all going to die. That is the truth, but have you thought about what it means?
I invite you to ask me anything about the death industry, really, anything.
I will respond in an open and honest manner.
The house is in turmoil - to much time together, to many adults all in the same house Its very difficult when two of the adults are the grown children of the other two.
Anger festers and boils out over trivial comments.
No one apologizes for the hurt, the pain, the sorrow caused. Each would rather have the other apologize.
Old angers and hurts are dragged out and reviewed.
We were terrible parents. We spanked, sometimes unjustly, its easy to point and say that this is where you did the incorrect thing.
The self loathing I feel for not being a better parent is crippling. I wish I had better role models, but I am a product of my parents. A battered and abused wife, an alcoholic and abusive father, whom I suspect of having some bi-polar tendencies, based on reviewing my memories. Its too late to know, both are long dead and their children reap their sowing.
Too long too late. My children are grown and alternately love and hate us in turn. They want to escape to another state. I wish I could make it possible for them.
I wish that I could get any of us to have a conversation with out it turning into a battle.
I wish, I wish, I wish, but none of that does any good.
Eventually they will leave and we will be left behind, as it should be, but the thought hurts.
Oh well. It is what it is and I can only accept it.
I got a note from a long time friend wanting to know if this journal was still active and I realized that I haven't updated in two years.
Time, like a river flows ever on, even when we attempt to hold it back.
In my case I made the realization that I rarely have the opportunity to just sit in front of a computer these days. When I worked for the Evil Empire was in front of one 8-10 hours a day, now I'm lucky to have an hour a day in front of one.the limits blogging and fandom activities pretty quickly.
I'm not complaining, I'm still employed full time in my field and I'm licensed as both a full funeral director and an Embalmer, so the trade-off is fair, but miss the ease participating in fandom.
So, here in a nutshell is what's happened in the past two years....
I am still employed at the mortuary provider and finished my internships. I passed my exams and became fully licensed. I am currently job hunting for something in a more traditional funeral home and have done a couple interviews.
My spouse embraced their inner woman and began transitioning a year ago. The Elder and the Younger Spawn continue to reside at the family home, the Elder working in their chosen field as well. They had planned on moving out, then as typical with life a crisis occurred and that was put on hold. Medical bills to be paid off, etc. Nothing to worry about, just a gall bladder that needed to come out then a reaction to the meds. All it's fine with them now.
The Middle Spawn, the Son in Law, and the Spawnletts moved back to the area for health issues and are doing mostly okay. Time prevents me from seeing then as much as I'd like, and I want to change that for the coming year.
Sat, Oct. 2nd, 2010, 10:18 pm
Originally posted by neo_prodigy
at Spirit Day
It’s been decided. On October 20th, 2010, we will wear purple in honor of the 6 gay boys who committed suicide in recent weeks/months due to homophobic abuse in their homes at at their schools. Purple represents Spirit on the LGBTQ flag and that’s exactly what we’d like all of you to have with you: spirit. Please know that times will get better and that you will meet people who will love you and respect you for who you are, no matter your sexuality. Please wear purple on October 20th. Tell your friends, family, co-workers, neighbors and schools.
RIP Tyler Clementi, Seth Walsh (top)
RIP Justin Aaberg, Raymond Chase (middle)
RIP Asher Brown and Billy Lucas. (bottom)
REBLOG to spread a message of love, unity and peace.
Wed, Jul. 21st, 2010, 08:19 am
Um yeah.... to keep the journal from deleting.
Fri, Aug. 10th, 2007, 07:38 am
I've been thinking a lot about leaving LJ and have decided that I am.
It started with the ban on pictures of women breastfeeding -- it was deemed obscene by the friendly LJ staff. I can only think that none of them were breastfed as babies and so don't understand the nature of the act.
Then there was the great strikeout of 07.... where a small special interest group decided that they knew what should be on LJ and what shouldn't. Then the great retraction of 07, along with the hopes that by back-peddling and redirection folks would be willing to buy permanent accounts that were going on sale.
And now there is the great art fiasco and banning of fandom artists.
I don't really care what LJ's excuses are, nor why they are choosing to treat a portion of their client base this way. They own JL and they can do whatever the hell they want with it, regardless of how their customers feel.
We've seen much larger corporations do this without talking to their customers and fall when the customers didn't appreciate it. New Coke anyone?
I choose to not spend my money on a company that labels me with terms like pedophile, freak and pervert because I read and write Harry Potter fanfiction. It doesn't matter to them that the fiction I have written is always between two characters of consenting ages....the fact that the books dealt with children makes anything written in the fandom pedophilia in their eyes.
So with this I say so long and thanks for all the fish..... I'm moving over to Insane Journal, where I own the content that I post in my journal and if there is a complaint about it, the TOS says that they will contact me about it.
No arbitrary decisions and ugly namecalling.
No LJ staff posting abusive and negative things about their customers in forums.
Come on over and see me sometime. I have the same name and everything.
or will be in about 3+ hours. We're all packed except for the couple of things that we have to swing by abeilledeverte
's place to pick up the stuff that she forgot (antibiotics for her and my swimsuit).
I may or may not post while gone. Hugs to everyone and have a great two weeks.
in two days
*runs screaming around the house*